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White Blanket

"there's no buddy like a brother." stylized photo of Will and Mikey lying on the floor with pillows and a blanket watching TV.
Let's just chill out the day before school starts! The calm before the storm.

This post is a bit of a mish-mash of a few different ideas.

First, this is our downtime before the first day of school. This journal entry perfectly encapsulates how we’d usually spend the last day of summer.  Either outside by the pool or inside chilling out, we’d relax and get ourselves organized for the school year.  It gave me time to check that they had all the school supplies on their lists, make sure everything was labeled and catch my breath after the summer madness.

journal entry from August 26, 2014. photo of will and mIkey laying on the floor with pillows and blanket, watching TV "Best brothers cozied up in front of the TV!"
Some distraction from the back-to-school nerves seems like a good use of TV time.

Secondly, Will is prominently featured in today’s entry.  I thought it was important for the kids in Mikey’s Fourth Grade class to know that he had a cool big brother in the Sixth Grade! That’s in the middle school in our town so it was a big deal.

But more than that, using the journal to share that Mikey is loved helps the kids to see him as a whole person.  You’re less likely to mock someone when you know their family. The journal helped his classmates get to know us without us being present in school.  It showed that Mikey was important to us.

Finally, that white blanket.  Mikey was obsessed with this duvet insert. It could never have a cover because Mikey would take it off.  He wanted the pure, unadulterated white blanket. It was a great source of comfort to him for many years.  Now we have shifted to a simple navy blue comforter for Mikey’s bed and he has handled the change like a champ!

How was that for a mess of different topics?  That’s how it goes.  Every day will be a jumble of different goals, activities and emotions – just do your best to keep all the balls in the air and if one drops, get to it when you can.

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Erica Mauro

About the Author

Erica Mauro is a mom to two teenage boys, Will who is neurotypical and Michael with Autism and cognitive delays. She holds a BA in Psychology from Colgate University and a Masters of Psychology in Education from Columbia Teacher’s College. Before staying home with her children, she worked as an elementary school teacher. For five years, she served on the Board of Directors of the Molly Ann Tango Memorial Foundation, a charity dedicated to enriching the lives of children with special needs. In partnership with her husband Dave, she aspires to parent by using daily life as an opportunity for therapeutic intervention, seizing on real experiences as opportunities to build skills and strategies for Michael in a joyful, loving home environment. On the tougher early days, she just tried to get everyone safely to bedtime and start fresh in the morning. *wink* 😉

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