Typical Siblings
Special needs kids take a lot of time and energy from their parents. That means, whether we like it or not, there is an impact on their typical siblings. They are asked to help out more, to be an extra set of hands, and to support their special needs sibling(s). As parents, we try to shield them from some of this responsibility, but the expectations are complex.
One moment, we may need them to give their sibling space and the next, we may need them need to come along to a therapy appointment.
On the one hand, they may need to put extra effort into finding a quiet place to do their own homework because their sibling is being loud. On the other hand, there may be times when they are asked to be quiet to help their sibling calm down. It is complex for sure.
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When I come across photos like this one, they make me smile. These boys love each other and truly enjoy each other’s company.
For more of my thoughts on the complexities of the sibling relationship, click the link below.
Check out tomorrow’s post for one way we try to reward Will for his extra efforts.
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About the Author
Erica Mauro is a mom to two teenage boys, Will who is neurotypical and Michael with Autism and cognitive delays. She holds a BA in Psychology from Colgate University and a Masters of Psychology in Education from Columbia Teacher’s College. Before staying home with her children, she worked as an elementary school teacher. For five years, she served on the Board of Directors of the Molly Ann Tango Memorial Foundation, a charity dedicated to enriching the lives of children with special needs. In partnership with her husband Dave, she aspires to parent by using daily life as an opportunity for therapeutic intervention, seizing on real experiences as opportunities to build skills and strategies for Michael in a joyful, loving home environment. On the tougher early days, she just tried to get everyone safely to bedtime and start fresh in the morning. *wink* 
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