So Cool

I bet every town in America has a place like The Ridge.  The Redding Ridge Deli is located near our high school and all the high school kids go there during free periods and for snacks after school and before their sports practices start.  There are tables for the kids to gather, but lots of times they’ll take things to go.

By the time they get to high school, this is just part of their routine.  But for the younger kids, The Ridge holds a special mystique. It is the terrain of the teenagers and therefore it is very cool!  So, when we took a trip to the Ridge, I encouraged Mikey to include it in his journal.

Some of the kids his age had high school siblings, so they knew the Ridge and had been there.  Anything that can help build connections with others is a great topic to include in your child’s journal. 

Furthermore, if you think your child may need help answering what they got at the Ridge, include a photo of their snack to prompt them while they’re sharing their journal with their classmates.

One Note

I wouldn’t suggest trying to get your child to do anything outside of their interests and comfort zone just because it is cool. First, it rarely works – kids have a very good BS detector. They know when another kid is just trying to be cool. Second, if your activities are not fun and rewarding for your child, you’re just setting yourself up to deal with challenging behaviors. Don’t try too hard.

This was a cool place in our town and we were looking for a quick, fun outing. When the stars align and you have done something that might help build connections, share it.