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Shaving

stylized photo of Mikey with shaving cream on his face, Nivea men shaving cream bottle and a bic razor.

For the boy moms and dads, at some point you will need to tackle shaving…probably because the universe thought you were ready to level-up on parenting challenges.

Electric Razors

For safety reasons, every professional we asked suggested an electric razor.  This must work for lots of young men on the autism spectrum because the suggestion was unanimous.  Personally, I also liked this idea because I always like to start in a way that could eventually become independent over time.  I thought a regular razor would be much less safe for Mikey to do on his own.

Mikey Disagreed

He hated the vibration of the electric razor on his face.  He dreaded doing it and therefore it was always a challenge.  So, I use a regular razor for him, and I shave his face before he gets in the shower. 

Do I think this is an ideal solution? Nope. Do I think it will be more challenging, if not impossible, for him to learn to do this independently? Yup. Would this be my advice to you? Nope.

But

This was good enough for my family and my kiddo…so, I’m just sharing my Saturday suggestion with you – listen to the experts, listen to your gut as a parent, but also remember to listen to your child. Sometimes that will mean that everyone else’s advice needs to sit patiently on the sidelines while you press ahead with what works in your house.

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Erica Mauro

About the Author

Erica Mauro is a mom to two teenage boys, Will who is neurotypical and Michael with Autism and cognitive delays. She holds a BA in Psychology from Colgate University and a Masters of Psychology in Education from Columbia Teacher’s College. Before staying home with her children, she worked as an elementary school teacher. For five years, she served on the Board of Directors of the Molly Ann Tango Memorial Foundation, a charity dedicated to enriching the lives of children with special needs. In partnership with her husband Dave, she aspires to parent by using daily life as an opportunity for therapeutic intervention, seizing on real experiences as opportunities to build skills and strategies for Michael in a joyful, loving home environment. On the tougher early days, she just tried to get everyone safely to bedtime and start fresh in the morning. *wink* 😉

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