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Peter Pan

Mikey as Peter Pan and the cartoon of Peter Pan and Tinker Bell, flying the children to Neverland.
If we surround them with the right supports, our kids can live lives filled with adventure and wonder. What a gift!

We had just seen the Disney Peter Pan animated movie and we headed off to Party Depot to find a Halloween Costume.  I chose a few off the shelves that I thought might be comfortable enough for Mikey to tolerate.  Of those, he chose Peter Pan.

journal entry for October 22, 2014. "I got my halloween costume. I'm dressing up as Peter Pan." photo of the Party Depot sign (where we got our costumes) and Mikey dressed as Peter Pan
At this point in Mikey’s life, I had a good sense of what he would (and wouldn’t) tolerate wearing, so we could wait to choose his Halloween costume.

Peter Pan gets a bad rap when we think about growing into a typical adult.  There is even something called Peter Pan Syndrome…guess what, it’s not good. And, as parents of special kiddos, we can worry that their childlike ways won’t serve them well in the adult world.

But

I’m going to ask you to take a different view.  Peter Pan represents holding onto innocence and imagination.  He is the poster child for maintaining a sense of wonder and finding joy in every day.  He lives life to the fullest! He has adventures with friends. His days are filled with joy and fun.  Our kids’ lives can be wonderful, even if they don’t look exactly like typical adult lives.  

Our kids are the most beautiful Peter Pans! Let’s give them the support they need to live their best lives.

Journaling Tip

If you know all the kids will be discussing their Halloween costumes, help your child put something in their journal about it! This will allow your child to be a part of the classroom conversation!

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Erica Mauro

About the Author

Erica Mauro is a mom to two teenage boys, Will who is neurotypical and Michael with Autism and cognitive delays. She holds a BA in Psychology from Colgate University and a Masters of Psychology in Education from Columbia Teacher’s College. Before staying home with her children, she worked as an elementary school teacher. For five years, she served on the Board of Directors of the Molly Ann Tango Memorial Foundation, a charity dedicated to enriching the lives of children with special needs. In partnership with her husband Dave, she aspires to parent by using daily life as an opportunity for therapeutic intervention, seizing on real experiences as opportunities to build skills and strategies for Michael in a joyful, loving home environment. On the tougher early days, she just tried to get everyone safely to bedtime and start fresh in the morning. *wink* 😉

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