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How To Live

Close-up of the book's title: How to live on an island, handwritten in colorful, designed letters.

My mom and stepdad purchased this book while they were on vacation waiting for Mikey to arrive.  Since Mikey was (and is) the youngest, my mom decided to let him be the keeper of the book, but as you can see…it has been well-loved.  

Cover of the book How to Live on and Island by Sandy Gringas, hand drawn woman on a tiny island sitting in the sand with her hands wrapped around her knees, a rainbow of dolphins jumping over her.

Here is the note she wrote him inside.

Letter from my mom to Michael handwritten on the inside of the book, text re-typed below in the post.

Mimi’s Note

Dear Michael,

Today we held you for the first time, just a few hours after you were born – and you were wonderful. We look forward to watching you grow and to seeing you write the story of your life, moment by moment. There will be a lot of hard work in your story, I am sure. There always is! But you will also find your islands – real and figurative – and they will fill you and recharge you if you let them. So, dig your toes into the sand and let the wind ruffle your hair (which is, by the way, AMAZING!) and enjoy!

Love, Mimi

P.S. I am sending all of the other grandchildren cards with the basic “Island Message” but you are the keeper of the book that explains it all.

My Thoughts

I couldn’t have written it better myself.  I wish she had lived to see the fine young men her grandsons have grown to be. But she wrote her own life story beautifully and there were many islands, literal and figurative. 

My favorite pieces of advice passed on through this book are:

  • Make a splash
  • Run with waves
  • Ebb and flow
  • Cultivate quiet
  • Tune up your senses
  • Walk tender

Wishing you beautiful islands of your own, my friends. Enjoy😊

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Erica Mauro

About the Author

Erica Mauro is a mom to two teenage boys, Will who is neurotypical and Michael with Autism and cognitive delays. She holds a BA in Psychology from Colgate University and a Masters of Psychology in Education from Columbia Teacher’s College. Before staying home with her children, she worked as an elementary school teacher. For five years, she served on the Board of Directors of the Molly Ann Tango Memorial Foundation, a charity dedicated to enriching the lives of children with special needs. In partnership with her husband Dave, she aspires to parent by using daily life as an opportunity for therapeutic intervention, seizing on real experiences as opportunities to build skills and strategies for Michael in a joyful, loving home environment. On the tougher early days, she just tried to get everyone safely to bedtime and start fresh in the morning. *wink* 😉

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