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Hockey Game

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Let's go, Islanders! clap, clap, clap-clap-clap. At this game, we got one seat in front of Mikey just in case he was having trouble keeping his body still with all of the excitement.

One of Mikey’s favorite things to do is see sporting events live.  Our favorite hockey team is the New York Islanders, and they play at UBS Arena on Long Island.  It is a newly-build facility with sensory rooms, individual restrooms for people with special needs and it has spacious corridors, so Mikey doesn’t get too overwhelmed.

journal entry 'I went tot a hockey game with mom and dad.' photos of the three of us at UBS arena in our seats.
Big excitement, made possible by boring routine.

These games are big adventures for Mikey, so he only goes to one or two each year.  We always choose a day game, so we don’t disrupt the vitally important sleep schedule. We have him wear his biggest, most-sound-blocking-est headphones and a hoodie on top of them.

In addition, we have a routine to provide comfort.  We skip the shuttle bus from the parking lot to the area and we walk instead.  This lets Mikey stretch his legs after a long car ride and get him ready to sit still in his seat for the game.  Once inside, we keep the routine the same. As we pass the special needs restroom, I ask if he needs the bathroom.  We either use it or don’t, depending on his answer.  Then, it’s on to the concession stand to get a cheeseburger, fries and a water.  Then, we head to our seats and eat while we watch warm-ups.  I usually put some candy and Mikey’s enzymes (which help him with digestion) in my coat pockets so that we have what we need to make it through the game.  At some point, we usually get up, use the bathroom and go get a vanilla ice cream with sprinkles and return to our seats for cheering, singing, dancing and lots of smiling.

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Erica Mauro

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Erica Mauro is a mom to two teenage boys, Will who is neurotypical and Michael with Autism and cognitive delays. She holds a BA in Psychology from Colgate University and a Masters of Psychology in Education from Columbia Teacher’s College. Before staying home with her children, she worked as an elementary school teacher. For five years, she served on the Board of Directors of the Molly Ann Tango Memorial Foundation, a charity dedicated to enriching the lives of children with special needs. In partnership with her husband Dave, she aspires to parent by using daily life as an opportunity for therapeutic intervention, seizing on real experiences as opportunities to build skills and strategies for Michael in a joyful, loving home environment. On the tougher early days, she just tried to get everyone safely to bedtime and start fresh in the morning. *wink* 😉

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