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Food for Social Events

side of an ice cream cake (vanilla with rainbow sprinkles) with the title Wednesday Wisdom in white font.

Our Wednesday Wisdom is one of my favorite quotes from Julia Child!

Top of an ice cream cake with rainbow sprinkles around the outside and in purple script: "A party without a cake is just a meeting!" - Julia Child

I saw the quote recently and it reminded me of a trick I use often as a parent of a picky eater. When we’re invited somewhere, I do two things.

First, I ask the host if there is anything we can bring.  If they give me a specific need, I bring that and otherwise, I offer to bring something healthy which I know Mikey will eat.  So, for example, I might offer to bring a veggie tray because I know I can get him to have some of the red peppers and baby carrots. Or,  (during his watermelon phase) I might have offered to bring watermelon to a summer BBQ because I knew he would have been happy to have some.

Second, I pack a bag of snacks and treats especially for Michael. If we’ll be eating a meal at the gathering, I pack his lunchbox from school with things he loves to eat. I also bring snacks like popcorn, an apple, yogurt, etc… Finally, I also hide some candy in my purse in case I need to bribe him to give us an extra five minutes to say goodbye politely when he has had enough social time for the day.

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Erica Mauro

About the Author

Erica Mauro is a mom to two teenage boys, Will who is neurotypical and Michael with Autism and cognitive delays. She holds a BA in Psychology from Colgate University and a Masters of Psychology in Education from Columbia Teacher’s College. Before staying home with her children, she worked as an elementary school teacher. For five years, she served on the Board of Directors of the Molly Ann Tango Memorial Foundation, a charity dedicated to enriching the lives of children with special needs. In partnership with her husband Dave, she aspires to parent by using daily life as an opportunity for therapeutic intervention, seizing on real experiences as opportunities to build skills and strategies for Michael in a joyful, loving home environment. On the tougher early days, she just tried to get everyone safely to bedtime and start fresh in the morning. *wink* 😉

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