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Fish Tank

stylized photo of a goldfish with bubble letters spelling out 'Fish Tank'

Those of you who read the blog often know that Will is a huge fan of fish.  So, we got a fish tank in our basement playroom for him.  As always, I am here to share the good, the bad and the ugly of our parenting choices so you can learn from our experiences.

journal entry: 'We have a fish tank in our basement. My brother loves fish.' Photo of the red white and blue gravel and the algae eater, photo of the tetra swimming above the little cave in the tank.

The Good

Of course, Will was thrilled! But also, Michael loved the fish tank right from the start.  Fish are soothing to watch.  A fish tank would make a wonderful addition to any sensory room because the water sounds, the lights and the moving fish are all very calming.

The Bad

Once you get a fish tank up and running, it lasts forever.  Sure, one fish may die, and you replace it, but if you’re taking good care of them, the tank will never be empty…so you can never be done with fish.  So, to this day, I feed the fish. I clean the tank. I change the filter. And no one else in the house cares that much about the fish now that the basement playroom doesn’t see as much activity as it used to.

The Ugly

Soon, we will be selling our house and I’m going to have to figure out what to do with the fish.  Will I be able to give them away? Will Petco take them back? Who knows?!? I’ll add it to my ‘To Do’ List…ugh.

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Erica Mauro

About the Author

Erica Mauro is a mom to two teenage boys, Will who is neurotypical and Michael with Autism and cognitive delays. She holds a BA in Psychology from Colgate University and a Masters of Psychology in Education from Columbia Teacher’s College. Before staying home with her children, she worked as an elementary school teacher. For five years, she served on the Board of Directors of the Molly Ann Tango Memorial Foundation, a charity dedicated to enriching the lives of children with special needs. In partnership with her husband Dave, she aspires to parent by using daily life as an opportunity for therapeutic intervention, seizing on real experiences as opportunities to build skills and strategies for Michael in a joyful, loving home environment. On the tougher early days, she just tried to get everyone safely to bedtime and start fresh in the morning. *wink* 😉

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