Familiar Places

We have probably been to this aquarium over 100 times. Michael loves it there!  We go so often because we have a membership (so after the first couple of visits each year, we basically get in for free) and he really enjoys it.  This was not part of any grand plan, but revisiting the same location so many times gave us some opportunities that are worth talking about.

One, when your child knows what to expect, they are more comfortable and their behavior is easy to predict. It makes the whole thing more relaxed for them and for you.

Two, you can make a language board that can help your child communicate while at that specific location. Michael has one on his communication ipad, but you could make one if you have a computer and printer. Just gather a group of photos (you can even use your own from a prior visit if you want) and print them on a regular piece of paper. You or your child can carry a clipboard around and point to things to communicate using the images or to encourage speaking.

Three, a place your child has been many times allows you to introduce the idea that we can talk about things that are not right in front of us. We can talk on the way there about what we will do. We can talk on the way home about what we saw.  This opens the idea of communication as more than simple wants and needs. It may take a long time for your child to develop these skills, but giving examples of communication for broader purposes is a worthwhile investment of your time.

And most importantly, we saw a seal!