Eye Doctor

Mikey needed to go to the eye doctor recently. Although he has had scans and preliminary eye tests at his pediatrician, he’s never been to a real eye doctor before.
To be honest, I still get anxious taking Mikey to new places and I thought this visit might be particularly challenging. I wasn’t sure if this doctor would want to give him the pupil dilating drops or look into his eyes with the bright light. I didn’t think he’d be able to tolerate either of those. I thought I’d probably need to advocate for him to decline those exams, but I was unsure if his eye doctor could get the information she needed without those tests.

It turned out, Michael did a wonderful job. There was an option to pay a small extra fee and do a digital scan of his eyes instead of the drops and the bright light. I was able to do that and it made the trip much easier. This might be the kind of thing that insurance could pre-approve for kids with special needs…it’s worth a phone call to the insurance company to find out.
Mikey felt great because they were asking him lots of questions and he knew the answers! The color-blindness test was shapes. The 3D vision test was naming animals. He was asked to draw some pictures copying simple line drawings and he nailed it. The distance vision was letters and the test for up-close vision was naming numbers. He had it all under control.
So, as sometimes happens, I was nervous for no reason. All good.
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About the Author
Erica Mauro is a mom to two teenage boys, Will who is neurotypical and Michael with Autism and cognitive delays. She holds a BA in Psychology from Colgate University and a Masters of Psychology in Education from Columbia Teacher’s College. Before staying home with her children, she worked as an elementary school teacher. For five years, she served on the Board of Directors of the Molly Ann Tango Memorial Foundation, a charity dedicated to enriching the lives of children with special needs. In partnership with her husband Dave, she aspires to parent by using daily life as an opportunity for therapeutic intervention, seizing on real experiences as opportunities to build skills and strategies for Michael in a joyful, loving home environment. On the tougher early days, she just tried to get everyone safely to bedtime and start fresh in the morning. *wink*
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