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Elf on the Shelf

Close up of elf on the shelf in the clementine crate covered in peels with the Elf on the Shelf logo
As always, take it or leave it. You do what works for you.

It has been many years since Will believed in Santa.  And actually, we never really made a big deal about Santa to Mikey. It seemed so abstract and I figured there was no need to encourage sitting on a stranger’s lap…when you’re born in NY like me, you get a healthy dose of skepticism and sarcasm at birth…anyway…

Some families use the Elf on the Shelf as a way to remind kids that Santa knows if they’re being naughty or nice. The parents move the elf every night, putting him in fun and creative poses/situations and the kids know he’s watching them for Santa. We did not put anywhere near this level of pressure on ourselves. We just put him in different funny situations whenever I had time.  At first, I did it as a fun distraction for the kids. Later, I would sometimes do it. Will would sometimes do it. Some years, our elf stayed in the same place all season. 

Mikey's journal entry from Thursday, December 12, 2013. Photo of the Elf on the Shelf 'taking a bite' out of a subway sandwich and photo of Elf on the Shelf sitting in the wooden clementine crate with pieces of orange peel all over him. "Our elf on the shelf cracks me up. This week he was really hungry!"
Two different food-related Elf on the Shelf scenes.

Mikey did think it was funny and he included it in his journal, so I am obliged to tell you that we did (and do) have an Elf on the Shelf. That said, we did it in the least pressure-filled, most fun and relaxed way possible. In fact, there are a zillion Elf on the Shelf ideas online so if you want to do it, you don’t even need to spend any time really thinking about it.

Any accessories we have are ones I purchased after the holiday season when they were on sale.  My point remains, as always, only do this if it is something that would be fun for you and your kids.  No need to add something extra to the list if you’re already overwhelmed. 

One Note:

For those who are new to the blog, Mikey could write for himself, but some days he asked me to write for him and since asking for what he wants is challenging for him, when he asked, I wrote for him. That’s why today’s entry is in my handwriting. The last sentence was probably the result of me asking Mikey how the elf was feeling. Mikey said, ‘hungry’ so that’s what we wrote.

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Erica Mauro

About the Author

Erica Mauro is a mom to two teenage boys, Will who is neurotypical and Michael with Autism and cognitive delays. She holds a BA in Psychology from Colgate University and a Masters of Psychology in Education from Columbia Teacher’s College. Before staying home with her children, she worked as an elementary school teacher. For five years, she served on the Board of Directors of the Molly Ann Tango Memorial Foundation, a charity dedicated to enriching the lives of children with special needs. In partnership with her husband Dave, she aspires to parent by using daily life as an opportunity for therapeutic intervention, seizing on real experiences as opportunities to build skills and strategies for Michael in a joyful, loving home environment. On the tougher early days, she just tried to get everyone safely to bedtime and start fresh in the morning. *wink* 😉

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