Celebrating Each Other

Here’s the background. Will went to a day camp at our local aquarium. He loved getting to be there every day, go behind the scenes and do creative projects based around the life in Long Island Sound. This particular summer, they got to gather specimens from the sound and create tanks for them in their classroom.

When Michael accomplished something or had something wonderful to share, we rallied around him and celebrated with him. Likewise, Mikey is included and welcomed when we celebrate other members of the family. This allows closer bonds and deeper connections.  Will had worked hard on his tank that summer and wanted to tell us all about it.

On this particular day, Michael was really interested and enjoyed the experience.  That said, my husband and I were both there so if we had needed to take Michael outside, we could each still have a chance to celebrate Will, congratulate him and share in his joy. If you’re a single parent, it might make sense to bring an older sibling, a friend, an aunt or uncle along so that you won’t miss the fun if your special kiddo needs a break or just can’t do it that day.

If you don’t have anyone who can join, call ahead and ask if you can come a few minutes early or stay a few minutes late once the room is quiet and clear so that you can experience the special moment with your child.