Cavities

When Mikey had cavities filled, I let the dentist give him ‘laughing gas’ to calm him down for a few minutes before he started. We had already built up Mikey’s comfort level for cleanings, but cavities are trickier and the drill would much more dangerous if Mikey got his hands free and hit the dentist’s hand. We needed him to be calm.

This language mirrors what I said to Michael throughout the appointment. “Mikey you’re doing great. You’re being so brave. What a good job you’re doing.” You get the idea. I spoke in this calm but encouraging voice through the whole procedure. Mikey did not need Novocain for this visit. The cavity was not deep, so we went ahead. It was actually a very good one to have done in the office because it was extremely fast.
If safety is a concern for your child, you can get cavities filled by your dentist or one of their colleagues at the hospital under general anesthesia. We did that for Mikey’s first fillings because there were multiple and one was in between the teeth (Mikey did not used to tolerate flossing well, but he is better now).
For more on how we built up a tolerance for dental visits, click the link below.
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About the Author
Erica Mauro is a mom to two teenage boys, Will who is neurotypical and Michael with Autism and cognitive delays. She holds a BA in Psychology from Colgate University and a Masters of Psychology in Education from Columbia Teacher’s College. Before staying home with her children, she worked as an elementary school teacher. For five years, she served on the Board of Directors of the Molly Ann Tango Memorial Foundation, a charity dedicated to enriching the lives of children with special needs. In partnership with her husband Dave, she aspires to parent by using daily life as an opportunity for therapeutic intervention, seizing on real experiences as opportunities to build skills and strategies for Michael in a joyful, loving home environment. On the tougher early days, she just tried to get everyone safely to bedtime and start fresh in the morning. *wink*
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