Baby Wipes

Will as a baby in his carrier, wrapped in a blanket and wearing a little had with the number 2 on it, surrounded by baby wipes.

My Saturday Suggestion is widely known by all experienced moms.  Once your babies are older, even if they are toilet-trained and no longer use diapers, baby wipes must remain a part of the arsenal.   I’m honestly a little sad I had to wait to have babies to find out how useful baby wipes are.  I keep some…

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The Welcoming Home

Me, sitting bundled up in a blanket next to the fireplace, my Happy Birthday banner still hanging on the mantle

As much as possible, I think it is important to be the welcoming home. Your house doesn’t have to be the fanciest or the coolest, but it should be a place your kids feel comfortable to invite their friends. In Mikey’s case, we tried to be a home where Mikey’s friends felt comfortable to invite…

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Effort Over Outcomes

Mikey in front of a congrats banner getting a high five from his teahcer (face obscured by an apple with glasses)

My Saturday Suggestion for this week is to praise effort over results. I’d love to share two examples with you. They illustrate why praising your child’s efforts is the place to be to encourage the behavior you want. The Smart Procrastinator Let’s say your child is very good at a given subject. They have a…

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Practice Active Listening

stylized photo of Mikey talking to a friend at a school assembly. His friend’s face is obscured by a listening emoji.

If your child can talk, active listening is a way to encourage them. Leaning in, keeping eye contact and nodding can provide positive feedback to help your child share what is on their mind. The photo above shows Mikey talking and his friend T, actively listening. Even before your child can talk, you can actively…

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