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Brothers

A close up of the journal page, showing the photos of Will and Michael together in the pool.
Brothers are the best!

Dodge tag is a made up game our kids used to play together where one would try to tag the other.  Guess what you need to do to get away? If you guessed dodge the tag, you’re picking up what we’re laying down. They played in the hot tub (without heating it) and the shallow end of the pool.

Michael's journal entry from August 20, 2013. "Will taught me dodge tag. We had fun."
Dodge tag…totally made up, but super fun!

It was simple enough for Mikey to pick it up quickly and the whole experience seemed to be much more about laughter than true competition. Will came up with it and the boys played it on their own, without any coordination from me. 

Will and Michael in preschool coloring on an easel with crayons while wearing Thomas the Tank Engine pajamas
It’s the jammies for me…just so cute.

A Relationship to Treasure

Will and Mikey have always had fun together. They played board games and did puzzles together. They would color and play with Thomas trains together.  They would splash in the kiddie pool at home and stick together on adventures like the zoo.

Michael and Will at the Children's Zoo within the Bronx Zoo, sitting in a big pretend bird's nest.
Two Bros in a Nest

A Relationship for the Long Haul

It is my belief and my most sincere hope that long after I am gone, they will still be going to movies together, laughing at Phineas and Ferb and going out for pizza and ice cream. 

Will (3) and Michael (2) in the kiddie pool.
Just the brothers, no moms allowed.

Our children’s siblings are the gift we leave them after we are gone and I know that decades from now, if Will is having a bad day, he’ll be able to FaceTime Mikey; and the pure joy on Mikey’s face will make Will’s day a little better. I know that Mikey will feel safe and taken care of because Will is going to stop by to see him, meet his friends and spend time with him.

Will (20) hugging Michael (19)
Their love for each other is truly moving.

Who knows, maybe they’ll even bring back dodge tag. Either way, I know they will be there for each other and that makes this momma’s heart happy.

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Erica Mauro

About the Author

Erica Mauro is a mom to two teenage boys, Will who is neurotypical and Michael with Autism and cognitive delays. She holds a BA in Psychology from Colgate University and a Masters of Psychology in Education from Columbia Teacher’s College. Before staying home with her children, she worked as an elementary school teacher. For five years, she served on the Board of Directors of the Molly Ann Tango Memorial Foundation, a charity dedicated to enriching the lives of children with special needs. In partnership with her husband Dave, she aspires to parent by using daily life as an opportunity for therapeutic intervention, seizing on real experiences as opportunities to build skills and strategies for Michael in a joyful, loving home environment. On the tougher early days, she just tried to get everyone safely to bedtime and start fresh in the morning. *wink* 😉

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